Break Up

There is a time when someone comes into your life and you feel like that’s the person you were waiting all the time. The first days always seems magically interesting to you and you start asking yourself how was your life before that person arrived in it. It is true that you picture yourself spending the rest of your life with that person but sometimes things change until it comes to the last days when you finally have to say goodbye to each other that’s A Break up.

Actually break up doesn’t have to be a reason of creating hates in our hearts or regrets in our lives. When you are in relationship there are always good times, cherish those beautiful moments you had together, be happy for the lessons learnt and experience gained then learn and feel free to let go because they say if you want a wound to heal you need to stop touching it.

Saying to let go is easier than doing it, after a break up you will start telling yourself things like “maybe I was not enough”, “I am the reason for the break up” or saying that you might have hold on a little longer. You will find yourself crying unstoppable that’s okay but I want to remind you that as long as you stop crying make sure that the same person and the same reason don’t make you cry again

There is no doubt that you will want to go back in those days when you were together, but if the person doesn’t want you there is no purpose of going back there, it is not and it will never be fair to stuck where there is no love and love begged or chased will never be love.

Please, don’t be a burden to yourself, it is your relationship that broke not your heart that person doesn’t own a power of breaking your heart unless you give that power but I fully hope that you can’t do it because you know how you are important to yourself and you know that you still have a lot to accomplish and your heart is the main key to complete all your dreams so don’t let it be broken.

Consequently, I want you to remember that before that person came into your life you were living healthy and strong, having a spirit to work on your goals, laughing with friends and grateful for the life, recall all those moments and be back there. You don’t need to worry about the break up because what deserve you will always find its way to meet you. I am sure that you will deserve what deserve you.